All of me, loves all of you, Perfect imperfections too?

I was stuck this morning on what to write until I talked to my daughter.  We were complaining about our husbands and the things they do which bother us for no good reason at all (they are obsessed over their yards and cutting grass).  I have told her so many times that most little girls tend to find a man like their fathers in some way (subconsciously).  

 I will say this again,  YOU CAN NOT CHANGE A PERSON!   You may be able to tweak a few things about a person but for the most part, who you date, and who you fall in love with is who you will marry and that never really changes, so be okay with “all of wo they are”.

If you have never read “The 5 Love Languages”,  you should because it works!  You may get along better but you can use it as a tool in your relationship!   “You can catch more flies with honey”.  Just let your honey be who they are and you learn to be okay with it.  After all, they are who they are and so are you.  Why continually be upset about the same trivial things,  especially when you have not been able to change it or them thus far (preaching to myself) ;0)

If you believe, Be ready

As a teenager, I knew what I wanted, and did not want in a husband. I was raised in a very loving household, and I knew I wanted the type of love my “step father” had for my mother and her children. So when I gave my life to The Lord, I prayed for a husband who was just right for me! God answered that prayer, and gave me a man who understands Me, who truly cares about Me and My well being. It has made for a wonderful life together.

My advice to those of you still waiting, is to live life to the fullest as you wait for Mr. or Miss “right for you” to come along. Trust God and know, He has a plan for you and your life, especially when you are walking in obedience to His Word. His word says, “Every good and perfect gift comes from above” (James 1:17), and I know you will agree that a man or woman in your life who loves God, is certainly a gift! God wants the best for us! He wants us to prosper and be in good health even as our soul prospers” (3 John 1:3). So handle your finances well, take care of your body, eat right, exercise, have fun, and always look as though you want to be found😊. It could happen anyplace, at anytime.