It’s so important to always do the right thing for the right reason. Do good (the right thing) because you truly care, and because Gods Holy Scripture says, we are to care for one another (Romans 12:8). Don’t do anything to be seen or to be praised by others, instead do it because Jesus did it for you when He gave His all during His lifetime on earth and ultimately in His death on the cross.
Don’t permit yourself to be upset or feel that you’ve been wronged by someone who seems ungrateful, or totally unconcerned with you now that their crisis is over. Be thankful for the time and the friendship you had, for what you learned from them positive or negative, and especially for what you were able to do to assist them in their time of need. That’s God’s love being exhibited through you. Don’t worry about anything else because your God who sees what you do in secret will reward you openly.
Galatians 6:9 “Let us not grow weary in well doing, for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not”. That’s the promise we get from God.