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No More Excuses

Change is tough for us, it is emotionally challenging. it is not what we are used to doing, what we are used to saying, or who we are used to being. ┬áThat’s why it’s so hard to change.

Now, It is said that in order to make change a habit, you must do whatever it is for at least 21 days consecutively. It is also said that if we make a change in one area of our lives, (yes, that), it can theoretically affect change in all areas of our lives.

If you know you want to be better, you want to behave better or you want to look better but you can’t quite seem to make it happen on your own, why not ask God to be your strength, or to be your voice of reason, and then you do your part and begin to make an effort and don’t stop trying! If you fail,

No more excuses! You can do it!

Philippians 4:13 says, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”.

Matthew 6:33 says, “But seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these other things shall be added”, (Righteous things, Godly blessings), nothing is too big, too small or too hard for God! ┬áJust ask Him, He is able and He will change what you cannot change on your own.


Honesty is always the best policy

Honesty, communication and commitment exists in every successful relationship.

Do not allow yourself to become involved with anyone whom you do not have the freedom to be yourself. I know you may want the life you’ve dreamed about, but I pray, not at the cost of settling for less than the person with whom you can be happy with forever and ever, amen.

Don’t get me wrong, you can definitely fix some things such as, bad habits, bad manners, those annoying things overall, and so can they of they desire but be true to yourself. Do not pretend you are something or someone you’re not!
It’s just not fair to anyone, and most importantly, it will cause you unhappiness and hearty ache in the long run.

It is impossible to keep pretending or to keep anything hidden for long, nor should it be your desire! Again I say, YOU can not change anyone! Like em or leave em alone.

Try A New Approach

Accept people for who they are, good, bad or indifferent. When someone offends or hurts you, tell them! Give them the opportunity to respond and/or to apologize right then and there.
Grudges are an absolute waste of time! So, if you recognize that you may have offended, apologize!
Pride is a dreadful thing, especially when it won’t allow you to spare someones feelings with as simply a phrase as, “I’m sorry” or “I didn’t mean it that way”, and If you put it off, it becomes harder and harder to do.

“Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall” (Proverbs 16:18).
1 Peter 3:8


Can You Handle It?

If God can’t trust you with hundreds, why are you asking for millions. St. Luke 6:10 (The Bible) Says, He who is faithful in a very little thing is faithful also in much; and he who is unrighteous in a very little thing is unrighteous also in much.

Change your mindset, be responsible with what you have, learn to use what you have this very day for the glory of God and see how much more you will be blessed.