When you love or care for someone, (even if you don’t), and your relationship is not quite what it used to be, DO NOT “ass-u-me” anything. DO NOT allow the devil to operate in your thoughts or in your life,. After all, he is “the father of lies”, confusion, and deception. He is the author of anything that is wrong (get the picture).
A resolution can be just a conversation away, in most cases. Don’t allow the fear of rejection, embarrassment to keep you bound or consumed with negative thoughts towards anyone.
In my experience, if you ask God to help you, to give you a time to discuss what’s bothering you or to help you to get to the bottom of a problem, He will, but you have to be willing to wait for His direction, His guidance, and not act on your own. We have a way of making matters worse when we act on our own. God can soften hearts and open ears to hear exactly what needs to be said and received, in order to resolve an issue.
“Wait on The Lord and be of good courage, and He will strengthen your heart” Psalms 27:14
The beginning of strife is like releasing the water of a dam; Therefore stop contention before a quarrel starts”