My husband and I have been married for nearly 33 years. Even though we have always been in love, it hasn’t always been easy. We pledged early on in our marriage to always talk because communication is key in any collaboration. We recently talked about times in our marriage, we were not so happy. While going through those issues, they seemed huge, but after the fact they seemed so insignificant, some were almost laughable. If you work at it now, you can look back later and maybe see what we saw. It was worth working through.
No one’s perfect! We all make mistakes (we’re only human) but be willing to work on fixing what’s broken in your relationship before you check out of it emotionally. Once your heart is no longer in it, it’s pretty hard to work anything out. Don’t give up until you are sure it cannot be fixed.